In conscious consideration, I recognize that all of us have misfortunes in life. I am moved to compassion and love for my neighbors, my fellow man and woman as well as my siblings.  I grieve for all around me.  But unconsciously, a "there-but-for-the-grace-of-God-go-I" thought appears. And with this thought I find myself with an expression of relief couched in the language of God's grace - divine action that starts or stops cancer, creates or prevents floods.  Grace is an unexpected gift.  Grace is free.  It is not earned.  The absence of grace is not a statement of moral depravity or anything moral at all.  The experience of grace is not a statement about righteousness.  Anything free, loving, and kind is grace.  And it is abundant.